Bystanders and Upstanders
CONCEPTUALUnderstand the bystander role — that when someone witnesses unkind or unfair behaviour, they have a choice: they can be a passive bystander (doing nothing), join in, or be an upstander (speaking up or getting help) — and develop the confidence to be an upstander
Mastery Evidence
- Explain the difference between a bystander and an upstander
- Describe at least two safe actions an upstander can take
- Give an example of a time they or someone they know stood up for someone else
Assessment Prompt
“If [child] sees a group of children being mean to someone at school, do they have the courage to say something, walk away with the person being targeted, or tell a teacher — rather than just watching?”
Curriculum Standards2 alignments
PSPE.INT.P1.CU.5IB PYP Personal, Social and Physical Education (PSPE) Scope and Sequencecodes onlyPSPE.INT.P2.LO.11IB PYP Personal, Social and Physical Education (PSPE) Scope and Sequencecodes onlyPrerequisites3
- Vocabulary: ethics and citizenshiphardAges 7—11
- Understanding BullyinghardAges 7—9
- Everyday Kindness and CaresoftAges 5—7
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- Vocabulary: ethics and citizenship hard
The bystander/upstander distinction is entirely vocabulary-dependent — these specific terms must be taught first
- Seeing Someone Else's Point of View soft
Understanding bullying impact benefits from perspective-taking
- Vocabulary: social awareness soft
Perspective-taking practice is enriched by precise vocabulary including 'perspective', 'bias', and 'compassion'
- Vocabulary: understanding others hard
Understanding that others have perspectives and feelings requires the vocabulary of empathy and perspective
- Vocabulary: ethics and citizenship hard
Understanding bullying requires precise vocabulary distinguishing bullying types including 'cyberbullying'
- Vocabulary: making decisions and keeping safe hard
Understanding that actions have consequences requires the vocabulary word 'consequence' as a named concept
- Vocabulary: making decisions and keeping safe hard
Distinguishing right from wrong requires vocabulary including 'honest', 'fair', 'trust', and 'right and wrong'
- Vocabulary: understanding others hard
Showing kindness meaningfully requires vocabulary for empathy, care, and community
- Other People's Feelings and Thoughts soft
Showing kindness benefits from knowing others have feelings
- Vocabulary: understanding others hard
Understanding that others have perspectives and feelings requires the vocabulary of empathy and perspective
Unlocks2
- Prejudice and DiscriminationsoftAges 9—11
- Peer Pressure and Resisting IthardAges 9—11